I thought about this a lot, I would like to share with you the result of my thoughts, and hear your opinion on this matter.
So, based on the last events of my life, when everything didn't go according to plan, I asked myself exactly this question.
In my understanding, success is doing what you want, making money on it, and building your life the way you want it.
So, a successful person never does these things:
1) Doesn't return to an unloved job with which he left. What is over is impossible to return.
2) Doesn't give people a second chance. Any relationship that has ended cannot be returned. You cannot trust a person who has betrayed once! For example, if you decide to file for divorce in Arkansas, don't try to go back.
3) Doesn't allow yourself to be disrespectful. You are the most valuable thing you have, and you must sell yourself and your knowledge for as expensive as possible. Even if you think you're bad, that's okay. There will definitely be a person in the world who wants and will be friends with you.
Plus, I want to add that a successful person knows about his shortcomings, accepts them and does not build illusions about other people. Are there any other points to add?